One of my colleagues sent me a you tube video of a preacher speaking about unaware fathers and it was very informative. What I identified most with was, this statement; "What is not transformed is transferred"! This was a phenomenal because at the root of this website is transformation. If we carefully look at first, people of color condition and second, people in general, our condition, it is very safe to boldly say, "we must transform"! I'm eager to hear what people think, and what do people think about self-transformation, is that desperately a must?